Big weekend. On Friday and Saturday we attended my Grandma Roper's viewing and funeral. It was a beautiful occasion--wonderful to see all my cousins and the close family she created. I loved hearing the talks by her children and learning things about her I'd never heard before. She was a determined lady--I wish I could have known her at my age. There never would have been enough time with her, but she was 98 and lived a full, happy life.
My favorite story told at her funeral was when my Uncle Delwyn talked about how he was cocky as a 10-year-old, because he could outrun all the other kids in the neighborhood and thought he was the fastest human alive. My Grandma saw him rubbing it into some younger kids' faces while she was inside the house, and she stepped outside in her housedress to challenge him to a race. Grandma was quite the athlete and beat him easily, to the other kids' delight. Uncle Delwyn was embarrassed and expected a rubbing-it-in or a talking-to about humility when she walked up to him afterward to hand him a glass of lemonade. Instead she just gave him a squeeze and told him that he was growing up to be such a good boy, and she and his dad were so proud of him.
I'll write more in the picture captions:
The sun is shining, Alice is out of preschool for the spring, and I'm beginning to wonder if we need to find a new landscape company. These are the days when it would sure be nice to let the kids loose in the backyard, or have a meal on a patio. We have liked our landscaper's renderings, communication, quote, and work they've done so far. But the speed has gotten slow enough that we're wondering if it may halt to a stop before summer, or just creep along at a snail's pace until fall. We are willing to forgive some pacing issues because this is typical in construction, and beggars can't be choosers. But they have been not showing up for entire days more and more often as the weeks go by, even sunny weekdays. They are also working on our next door neighbor's yard at the same time as ours, and at least half of the days they are "here" they don't touch our yard because they are next door. Again, I'm ok if the yard isn't ready by summer (it won't be). But I'm suspicious it won't be finished until summer is completely over and that isn't my favorite. I'll keep you posted.
I had a wonderful birthday/mother's day weekend. I went in with lowwww expectations because Jared has been slammed with work lately, but it was a great day! We started the day off strong going to Original Pancake House for breakfast. I'd never been and was impressed! The kids didn't really touch their food but I devoured my eggs benedict and then ate their pancakes for leftovers the next few days. Jared had the day off from work and we spent a couple hours antiquing during Alice's preschool. This was my activity of choice because I figured, if everyone forgot presents I can at least pick something out for myself while antiquing. We found a cool original painting, and I tried to buy an old wrought iron bistro set, but Jared kept discouraging me and when I wouldn't let up (mind you the whole set was like $40) he admitted that maybe he already got me something for the patio for my birthday. So I let the bistro set go and off we went to pick Alice up from my sister-in-law's house where she was playing. When Jack got home from school we loaded into the car and drove to my parents' house to have cheesesteaks for dinner and open a sweet gift from them. We rented a Wes Anderson movie to watch after the kids went to bed, and I opened some nice gifts, including a sales receipt for my dream wrought iron garden bench that will arrive soon ! We need to go with heavy wrought iron patio furniture because our backyard is so insanely windy, but I actually might end up putting the bench in our interior tree room. The couch in there now is much too bulky for the space and there would be something lovely about having a beautiful garden bench in a tree-mural room.
The next day was another Saturday that felt like a real Saturday! Maybe we are moving into a new stage of parenting where we can catch the occasional weekend breather? Don't get me wrong, this is made possible in part by our longtime system where Jared and I will each take a couple hours for ourselves on the weekend while the other one handles the kids. It's a good system. We went to a football game for Jack that was a nail-biter and lots of fun to watch. I planted some herbs. 10/10
Sunday was Mother's Day. With my birthday so close to Mother's Day, low expectations are key. Good thing I've figured that out because the kids both woke up in weird, competitively clingy moods? I do think Mother's Day was the cause. Jack is an extremely competitive person, and inevitably he has rubbed some of that off on Alice. They can be quite competitive over me. "My mommy!" "No, my mommy!" Jared attempted a breakfast in bed, bless him. But Alice ended up in there with me while he was cooking it, which I loved until Jack came in swinging and competitive and neither of them wanted to share me. Eventually I had to get out of there and shove some breakfast down my throat before anyone could steal it from me. (Alice has a strong tendency to only want what I'm having. Like actually the food that is on my plate. My own food.) After breakfast I decided it would be a good time to sneak away to my mom's house to give her a mother's day gift of a peony plant and a promise to help with the interior design for her bathroom remodel. (I have 60 vanities of the right dimensions for you to filter through by the way mom!)
Jared's parents are moving to Utah !! and drove their first batch of belongings into town over the weekend. Jared and the kids took their mother's day present to his mom while I puttered around before church. Then after church we went back over to their new home for a delicious Mother's Day steak dinner. The kids had a ball running around the new house and yard--the previous owners left their hot tub in the backyard so at one point the kids stripped down and jumped in. It hadn't been heated but at least it looked clean. They had a blast, and no rashes . . . yet.
More I could say . . . including spilling the beans on Jared's Mother's Day present for me, but I don't have a picture of it on my roll yet so I'll save that treasure for next week (it is awful and also it made me laugh so so hard). Now onto some pictures:
^^Antique store date with Alice. We ran into my sister-in-law taking herself on a Mother's Day antique date while we were here. Such a wild coincidence.
May! I'm so excited for the weather, my birthday, and (hopefully) our backyard coming together this month. Nervous about the kids being out of school before we know it. We do have Alice enrolled in a little summer preschool this year though, which won't last all summer but will be life-saving since naps will likely be a rarity.
This week was fun with a football game, the kids' music recital (so fun to have them both perform!), a choral concert my dad performed in, and lots in-between. We had the most Saturday-ish Saturday I've experienced since before Alice was born probably. Jared and the kids left to run errands in the monring, and we got the house cleaned and I fiddled with some plants for the porch. The kids played really well together when they were home, and Alice took a nap so she could do a movie night with her cousin later. Jared and I got to actually watch Jack's football game since Alice wasn't there, and then I left to my dad's concert with my mom and brother, and we all had ice cream at the creamery afterward. I also bought some herbs at a plant nursery. 10/10 Saturday.
Some Alice quotes this week:
"Woof! It's a hot day today."
"I go'd diarrhita and now the toilet is black. Want to see? That's the BAD stuff in there."
Reading Cinderella to me: "This mom is a bad guy. She's yelling. She's yelling, 'Don't take my popcorn!' But Cinderella needed some. That mom is a very bad guy."
And now for some pictures:
^^The kids' music concert. Alice sang some songs with her tots music group, and Jack played Frere Jaques, memorized. I know it's a basic song, but I'm proud of him! He was nervous but played it flawlessly. He started lessons in January and I'm impressed how far he's come with reading music.
