It's been a lovely week. Jared is in his sourdough era, Jack continues to feel less anxious and is sleeping better, Alice has gotten quite proficient on her scooter, and I'm down to our final 10 boxes of my unpacking journey.

Yesterday morning Jack made a "bunkbed tent" and wanted to have our family go "camping" in there before bed. So we all piled into Jack's top bunk, draped with blankets and filled with Christmas lights. We sang some camp songs and read some books and it was a lovely time. It's good to have moments like this after busy, attitude-filled weekends. Jack desperately wanted me to sleep on his bottom bunk for this campout. I didn't want to because it's a less comfortable than my own bed, but I reminded myself that I only get to enjoy one childhood with my children, and it was totally worth it because Jack had his best night sleep in months and months. 

Jack has been spending a lot of time with his classmate/neighbor friend Theo. They run back and forth to each other's houses most days. Jack picks Theo up on his way to school so they can finish their short walk together. Theo has gone on one or two outings with us, and on Saturday Jack went with Theo's family to run their Saturday errands. Sometimes I get annoyed when Jack unexpectedly comes home from school with Theo because I'd been hoping for a family outing to a park or something, but honestly our afternoons go much smoother when Jack has a friend here, and I remind myself frequently that this was my dream for Jack when we made the decision to move to Utah. I pinch myself that he is living out the "walking to school and back, biking around the neighborhood, running back and forth to a good friend's house or the park" life that I wasn't sure would ever realistically be possible. Happy for him and our family.

Hmmm what else...I got stuck in my temple dress in the changing room this week for a solid 15 minutes. It was bad enough that the blood flow to my arms had been cut off and I was about ready to yell for someone to bust down my door and cut me out with a pair of scissors😂 Luckily I was able to get it off just before it was time for me to cause a scene. In other dress-related news, Jared bought me the summery linen dress of my dreams that has become my new personality. Alice continues to say the sweetest, funniest things. (We just got back from the park, where she said to a little boy playing near her, "Hi kid!") With Jack less anxious in the evenings and us changing up the bedtime routine, Jared and I are finally getting to spend some time together on weeknights. It's a wonderful thing, and crazy that we went a full half year without that time together. And now for some pictures from our week:

^^Now that the weather is warming up I'm enjoying longer hikes in the evenings. I like to find a spot that's "my" spot when we move to a new place. Somewhere quiet in nature, a bit off the path, on my daily walk. I think I found it by this scrub oak tree on a hill overlooking the valley. 
Me: "Alice it's time to go home now. We need to eat lunch."
Alice: "Slide one more time? Tiny bit?"
^^Another  nature exploration! The thing I miss most about Washington is probably the endless beautiful rivers and lakes surrounded by gorgeous, towering trees. Jared and I each took two hours to ourselves on Saturday morning, trading off with the kids. This is something we try to do at least once each weekend. Usually I like to have them leave the house while I stay home to unpack and organize. This week they stayed home while I drove up American Fork Canyon to journal. I started out by Tibble Fork reservoir, thinking this would be the closest we'd get to our Washington lakes. It is beautiful up in the mountains, but Tibble Fork doesn't have the same charm or the same tree cover as our Washington lakes. Soon I started driving back down the canyon to try and find a quieter spot by the river closer to our home. Luckily I found several nice little spots that will be just a quick 15 minutes from our house. 
^^I found some old cardboard tube "binoculars" Jack made in preschool, and Alice was obsessed. She wanted to make some herself. So we made some and went for a family exploration in the hills to look for birds and forage some sage for a table arrangement. It was the casual family outing of my dreams.


April 2025

Alice has been saying so many funny things lately. When Jack was her age I would meticulously write down and record all the funny things he said. With Alice there are so many other things going on that I haven't made the time to do that yet. Until today! So without further ado, here are some of the funny things Alice says on the regular:

1. When Alice wants something and we say no, she gives us the biggest puppy dog eyes and says, "Just one time?" Often followed by, "Tiny bit?" with her fingers held close to each other. 

2. "Setty, et, go!"

3. "Luffy, cute!" Meaning she thinks her Lovey is cute, and then she gives it a kiss.

4. When she's nervous or sometimes even distraught: "Haha, hehe, hoho!" With her eyes squinting shut.

5. "Me no sad, me 'appy!" (Whenever we tell her it's time for bed or anyone mentions they are tired.)

6. "Mama Baby." (When she wants me to pretend to be a baby.)

7. Not anything strange, but she is exceedingly polite. Lots of, "Zzzz?" (please) and "Tay-too" (thank you) and "Gelcome" (You're welcome).

8. "Oopsie daisy!"

9. "Oh! Okayyyy!" With the funniest, most excited high-pitched voice inflection whenever someone says something she's happy/excited about. 

10. "Kah-kah, hmph." With a grumpy face and a foot stomp, to let me know that Jack is in a grumpy mood (haha)

11. "Me supa hungwy!" When she's, surprise, super hungry. 


Speaking of Jack, here are two bonus Jack-isms. I keep a note on my phone of funny quotes from Jack. The last ones I wrote down were from early 2024:

1. While playing a board game called Word on the Street, as he was just learning to read: "This card says, 'A place to invest monkey.' I know! The zoo!"

2. "Mom, I know who you used to drive far to kiss. Dad. That's literally all. Or wait I forgot, you have brothers!"😅

And now for some pictures from our week:

^^Distraught at the butterfly museum because she couldn't get a butterfly to land on her.
^^No worries, her cousin Aspen helped her hold a butterfly in the end. Having so many cousins around is everything. You can see the bandaid from Alice's blood draw in this picture. In a week or two we'll go to her allergist to do an in-office peanut test. If all goes well we'll be cleared to have her eat peanut butter at home, just in time for summer day trips and pb&js!
^^We learned that visits to the Tulip Festival are included in our Thanksgiving Point passes. I had no idea how expansive and stunning the Ashton gardens are. And they are less than ten minutes from our house. We continue to feel so grateful we ended up where we did in Utah.
^^One last visit to Julie's house before they moved to Idaho. Jack continues to be so sad that his buddy Davis has moved. Me too. We will have to start writing letters.
^^Sunset walks in our foothills are my favorite thing about living in this neighborhood. I truly don't even mind the wind--Wyoming taught me that if I bundle up it isn't a big deal, and it scares most people off so I can have the trails to myself.
^^Easter egg hunt at Nana's!
^^Jack took a break from drawing for a tough week or two, but he is back at it now. Love this boy so much. He was having a lot of anxiety in the first half of April; so much that it was really taking a toll on his and the rest of the family's everyday lives. After a trip to his pediatrician, we got him started on the lowest dose of Zoloft and it has helped SO incredibly much. I teared up when a few days in Jack said, "Mom, does that medicine help me feel less anxious all the time?" I told him yes and asked if he was feeling better lately, and he smiled and said yes. I'm so happy for him and just sad we didn't look into this sooner. It has been months and months of turbulent/scared bedtimes and morning meltdowns/the occasional panic attack or anxiety tummyache before school. He is doing so much better now. Grateful he is happier and feeling more like himself now.

Aliceisms + Jackisms

We have loved watching spring erupt across the valley this week. From our house we can see all the trees down below gradually turning green, and the blossoms exploding on the trees lining our street. We are feeling the familiar Utah feeling in our blood, and we're excited to get out and explore more as the weather continues to get nicer.

We've had a nice week. My best bud Julie will be moving to Idaho in just a few short days. We have been trying to squeeze in as many playdates together as we can before then. Having her here these first few months of us living in Utah has been the sweetest unexpected blessing. I haven't made many close adult friends, and certainly none with decades of history like I have with Julie. It has been lovely to feel how easy a friendship can be again. It has been nice to have her family around to bridge the friendship gap while we've slowly gotten to know a few people in our neighborhood, school, ward. Now that Julie's family will be moving we will try and grow some of these newer friendships. But I will miss the ease and comfort of being able to get together with an old friend and just chat or watch a show or get our kids together so they can entertain each other while we catch a break. It has been lovely.

Another highlight of our week was the Sunday dinner hosted by my cousin last night. Many cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and my grandma were in attendance. It was warm enough to have dinner on the back patio while the kids all ran around and played on the lawn. It felt like a Sunday family dinner from my own childhood. I'm just so grateful that we made it back here and are able to raise our children around family, and that I get to enjoy living by my family too. I've missed that. It's every bit as wonderful as I imagined it would be.

And now for some pictures from our week:
^^These hills behind our house feel like home. It is the best place to go for evening walks with Savvy. This view and these trails are the reason we chose this neighborhood, and we're so glad we did. 

^^Blurry picture, but I took Julie to Red Lobster for one last girl's night before she moves. Somehow she had never tried lobster OR crab in her 32 years of life, and I couldn't let her leave without remedying that. She liked both and we had a nice evening, ending with a bit of packing up at her apartment. 
^^We went for a Palm Sunday walk with my parents yesterday afternoon. The weather was perfect and it was a beautiful way to kick off the week before Easter.

Spring Spirits High

Another Utah Spring Break in the books. The last two years, when we were living in Washington, we ended up making spur-of-the-moment Spring Break trips to Utah for job hunting and other reasons. This year it was nice to enjoy a spring break in Utah without having to drive 30 hours. 

We spent the first few days on playdates and trying to get back up to speed on potty training. (Not much luck there. I knew our easy-breezy first go at potty training was too good to be true.) Then we did an ambitious day trip to Goblin Valley to meet up with cousins and my parents for a fun day. The next day we rested up and then hit up our local rec center to swim. And on Saturday we spent the afternoon after conference at Lagoon! Jared's parents gifted us season passes for our Christmas gift this year. I didn't even know Lagoon existed until I was a teenager, so I'd never had any experience with the kid section, but there were lots of great rides that the kids loved. Next time we will go right at opening so we won't have to deal with as long of lines. Alice really couldn't grasp the concept of the lines. With kids I'm grateful to have a season pass so that when we go, we can make it a 2-hour trip and then feel fine about heading back home, instead of trying to stay all day to make the most of a day pass. 

Lest you think Spring Break was all good times, we did finish up Sunday afternoon taking refuge at my parents' house because we were all spring break'd out and having cute lil' MTBs. So grateful to live close to them and be able to crash their Sunday dinner with very little notice. They're the best. And now for some pictures:

^^Jack taking iconic selfies with my bestie's oldest son. They have become good friends over the past few months. It makes me feel so nostalgic and happy to know that me and my childhood bestie now have kids who are best lil buddies too. Also sad because I know this phase is a blip and they will be moving out of state at the end of this month. We're making the most of the time we have.
^^We spent one morning with my brother and his oldest at Kangaroo Zoo. So fun to have Alice be old enough to wander around a little bit on her own these days. These places aren't quite as all-hands-on-deck as they used to be for me. 
^^Realized we hadn't taken any nice pictures of just Jack and Alice together for several months, so we had a little casual photoshoot. 
^^On Wednesday afternoon I took Jack to the new Dinosaur Museum Jurassic Jungle playground. Since I didn't bring any playmates for him and since he had a lot of dairy that day, we ended up running home with a tummyache after only half an hour. Meanwhile, Jared was taking Alice to get her blood drawn for allergy testing, but they couldn't get into her vein so they sent her back home. Bit of a failed afternoon. 
^^Goblin Valley! My brother invited us to join them for a spring break trip. We chickened out because our children are notoriously terrible travel sleepers. After our last overnight trip with them (Mt. Rainier) we swore off all overnight travel with our children for 2025. We felt bad but told my brother to let us know where they'd be going and we'd try to join them for a day trip. The location ended up being Goblin Valley, which at 3.5 hours away is an ambitious day trip. The drive down was gray and snowy and we spent most of the drive regretting our decision. Luckily the skies cleared up right as we entered Goblin Valley and we enjoyed a lovely afternoon in the park. The kids had an absolute blast. It was worth the drive to have a change of scenery for a day and have quality time with cousins and grandparents.

After Goblin Valley, we went to my brother's campsite for dinner and my parents' hotel for a swim before heading back out on the road for a much smoother drive home. It would have been fun to be able to stay overnight but it was the right call to get the kids back to their own beds this time. Once Alice is sleeping well in a big girl bed, we'll start braving longer trips. The goal is to reach that point by our family reunion this summer. 
^^Camping! This was Alice's dream day. Camping, swimming, playing with her baby cousin Hunter in his tent, and making her grandparents follow her everywhere. She was on cloud 9. It was Jack's dream day too. 
^^Back home, I spotted this coyote on my walk in our hills. Neat!
^^Lagoon! This was Jack's first experience in memory with cotton candy. His brain was blown. This was a great way to end our Spring Break. 

Spring Break 2025

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