I'm a day late on this week's post because Jared and I escaped to St. George for a little getaway while my parents stay with the kids. So far we are having a refreshing, wonderful time together. I will report back on our time in St. George in next week's post. For today's post, I believe I have pictures from most of the big stuff, so I'll do recap our week in the form of photo captions:

^^Valentine's Day dinner! We had homemade tomato soup, grilled cheese, some sausages, and "fancy" drinks. In reality our Valentine's celebrations were cobbled together in a "this is the best I can do" sort of way. My week was really busy with doctor's appointments, packing for St. George, meal planning and getting the house ready for my parents to come stay for a few days, and a few other items of business. But we still had a nice little time, and Jack loved exchanging Valentines at school.
^^Jack captured this casual lil morning moment
^^We got an intense snowstorm last week. The highlight was taking Jack to the huge sledding hill near our house and watching him fly down it with a bunch of other neighborhood kids. (Alice got out of the car and immediately face-planted into the snow, then immediately wanted to get back in the warm car with me, so we got to watch from there until she recovered. Hooray!)

The worst part of the snowstorm was how insanely icy all the roads got. It took Jared THREE HOURS to drive home from work. This is a drive that normally takes him 20 minutes without traffic, or sometimes 40 minutes if the traffic's bad. THREE HOURS. I was so grateful to have my parents invite me and the kids to join them for dinner at a restaurant near our house. It was treacherous to get to the restaurant and back, but it was nice to be with my parents and distracted instead of sitting at home stewing and wondering if Jared would ever make it home in his little sedan. 
^^The view from the top of the foothill where I usually take Savvy for her walk. I love having foothills in walking distance. So does Savvy.
^^Jack had his last game for his little i9 sports spring season. He was honestly too old to be on this team (it was for ages 4-6 but he's going to be 7 this week) so it wasn't as fun of an experience as we would've liked. But it was a good learning experience (he was very gentle and patient interacting with the littlest kids), and we found him an NFL youth flag football league to start next month. This is the same flag football thing he did for 2 years in Washington and loved. He's excited.
^^Jared took the kids to play at the mall and have Chik-fil-a while I finished getting the house ready for grandma and grandpa to come. The kids love going places with their Daddy. He's definitely Fun Dad.
^^The highlight of our week! The highlight of my year! Jared pulled off the BEST Valentine's surprise. The day after Valentine's Day, he told me he arranged for my parents to come babysit so we could go to a dinner dance together. I didn't know what to expect but this wildly surpassed anything I had been imagining. The dinner dance was at the Thanksgiving Point barn, which by itself was so fun because that's where I attended my senior prom in high school. But then on top of that, this felt like a fancier, funner adult version of prom that I got to attend with the love of my life!

Jared told me to dress Sunday casual, but we were some of the most casual ones there. The dress-code definitely leaned more black-tie fancy. We saw men in full suits that were covered in pink hearts, and ladies with floor-length sparkly ballgowns. It was a BLAST. Included in the ticket was a sit-down dinner, a photo booth, an open mocktail bar (fancy non-alcoholic drinks), and dancing to an incredible live band. It was the most fun dancing experience we've had . . . ever. Easily. By far. Jared's never been much of a dancer but he danced the night away with me. I do think the live cover band was what made the night such a blast. They were fun and talented and had great choreography. They played fun music from every decade. I should've taken a longer video clip of them, but here's a little taste:

I told Jared it was the best date he's ever taken me on. I'm really impressed that he pulled off the surprise so flawlessly, and grateful my parents came to watch the kids while we went. This will have to be a new Valentine's tradition. Next time I'm going to wear something sparkly. So fun!

Best Valentine's Date Ever!

It feels good to be standing at the start of a fresh week. Last week was a bit crusty, with a stomach bug hitting everyone in our family one by one. Luckily it was an extremely quick stomach bug so each of us was down for just a day and then right back to normal. It's time to hit the ground running because the rest of our month is going to be pretty full of birthdays, trips, appointments, all the things. Let's get to some pictures:

^^My favorite picture from the week, taken by Jack. We went to a Sunday dinner/Superbowl party at my Uncle ElRay and Aunt Susie's home. It was beyond lovely to be able to gather with family for this event--something that we haven't been able to so casually do for the past decade. We loved having Elray and Susie show us the fun little home upgrades they added during their custom build process. We won't be building a custom home, but we still learned a lot of helpful tips and loved spending time with family. Our life continues to feel so much more full living near so much family. It is an absolute dream for our kids to always be able to find other kids to play with when we gather (this time they played with my cousin Alan and Lindsay's kids).
^^Escaping for some fresh air during Jack's "sick day" home from school. He was feeling fine by noon so we started to go stir crazy. 
^^The view from the church parking lot by our home is unbeatable. Jack brought me up here for the sunrise one morning, after he made breakfast for everyone (a cereal bar). Don't get any delusions that this is common behavior over here, but he can be quite a sweetie. 
^^Jack wanted to see the "other side of the lake" so we spent the morning in Saratoga Springs while Jared was home sick. It was crazy windy but we did see a bald eagle and get a pizza, so . . . maybe worth the drive.
^^This was so fun! My dad had the idea to throw my mom a surprise party for her birthday this week. We got my grandma there and everyone brought something for the dinner/dessert. My mom was surprised and we had a great family time. The little cousins loved the hiding/surprise aspect of it.
^^Alice making flower bouquets
^^Stalling to get to school this morning. Jack normally refuses baths with gusto, so even though I knew this was probably a tactic to delay having to go to school, I couldn't say no when both kids requested a pre-school "bubbo baf" (bubble bath). We made it to school right at the bell. After a turbulent weekend with the kids I'll take whatever wins I can get. 

Tummy Bug

I am writing this week's post from my bed, looking out my window at our unobstructed view while the sun rises over the valley. We still have many months left in this home, but I'm already mourning the loss of these incredible views when we move. We'll likely have bits and chunks of views from our next home, but nothing like this incredible panoramic experience. I'll just have to keep waking up early to take in the sunrises while I can. 

It has been a research-heavy week. We have realized that spring sports, summer camps, fall preschools, and fall public charter schools all opened their registrations in early January and are filling up quickly. There is a good chance that we will keep Jack in the public school that is a short walk from our home, but he has complained many times over the past two months about hating his school, the way the classes are set up, how loud it is. I promised him I would at least look into other school options to see what's available. And as I've done so, the world of public charter schools has opened up. 

I always thought of charter schools as expensive private schools. But we have learned that there are multiple highly-rated *free* public charter schools near our home. One is a Montessori entrepreneurship school just a 3-minute drive from our house. One is a STEM school down the road. One school has an incredible space voyager program and many other programs Jack would love. The final one would be a 15-minute drive but is the top-rated public charter school in the valley. They all run on a lottery system for enrollment because they get so many applicants each year. So we sent in applications to all of them just to keep our options open, and if Jack gets accepted to any of them then we will start doing tours and more research to see if the public charter school route could be a good fit, and worth driving Jack to school instead of sending him scampering down the road. He is just starting to make friends at his current school so that will play a factor. But we feel grateful that there are so many genuinely great options in the area where we live. We've never had such an abundance of school options we feel really good about in previous places we've lived.

In other Jack news, Jack had his first playdate with a neighborhood friend! He has been making friends with several boys at school, and one kid in his class, who happens to live right down the street from us, has been inviting Jack over for playdates. This is uncharted territory for me, as I've always been friends with the parents first before I've set up playdates for Jack. I wasn't really sure how to navigate setting up a playdate with a parent I had never met. It seems that sending a note to school with your kid with your name and number on it, for him to give to the desired friend, for him to give to his mom, is the traditional approach these days. Luckily me and the other mom both sent notes with our boys to exchange on the same day. I did a little facebook research to get a feel for the boy's mom and family, felt comfortable with the situation, and sent Jack down the street to play with his new friend Theo. About an hour later they both came to our house. The playdate was a success. If the playdates continue I'll swing by and meet the mom. For now, I'm glad there's someone nice in the neighborhood Jack can play with.

Other highlights from the week: 

-I attended the BYU Philharmonic concerto night with my dad! It was soul-filling to spend time with my dad and go to a symphony concert for the first time in nearly a decade. It was was also delightful to watch my cousin, the newly hired conductor of the BYU philharmonic, knock it out of the park with his conducting. I do in fact feel like family of a celebrity now haha. My favorite was the clarinet concerto, which isn't what I would have expected, but it was a blast. 

-I had a girl's night with my high school bestie Julie! When she mentioned her husband's excitement for us to have a late-night, I was thrown RIGHT back into high school nostalgia in the best, weirdest 32-year-old lady way. We watched her favorite show, snacked, chatted, and meal planned/scrolled Pinterest in the background. Low-key. 10/10, would recommend. I'm sad she's going to move back to Idaho in April and happy we have these few months of overlap to hang out and get our kids together for frequent playdates. Honestly Jack plays SO well with her boys, so we'll all be sad to see them go.

-We hosted my parents and Grandma Roper for Sunday dinner yesterday! I'm so happy I was able to host my grandma for dinner in my own home for the first time ever. I have looked forward to this for a very long time. We had a classic Sunday dinner--chuck roast with mashed potatoes and gravy, carrots, rolls, jello, and pineapple. Jack and Jared made brownies for dessert, which we munched on while we played Chameleon, which is a wonderful, quick party game. I am so happy we could have Grandma over and look forward to having her in our home more often in the future. 

And now for this week's pictures:

^^The sunrise I'm enjoying right now.

^^I was trying to get Alice into her carseat but she was flat-out refusing. Because we were only going to be driving two minutes away, I offered to let her sit in Jack's booster carseat instead. "What seat do you want to sit in--Alice's, or Jack's?" She started doing eenie-meenie-miney-mo to decide: "Me me me me me me mo, me me me me me me mo, me me me me me me mo, me me me me me me mo." Then she looked at me and said resolutely, "Bof" (both). Curious to see how this would play out I said, "Ok." Sure enough, she climbed up, straddling both of the seats, and told me she was ready to go😂 After another minute or two I wrestled her into her own seat and off we went, but she is constantly making me laugh.
^^On saturday we went to the children's museum with cousins. Jack and Cole built their house out of bricks (hardy har har). We had lots of fun and then went to Tim's house afterward for a spontaneous cousin dinner. Moving near family really has made our life so much more full.
^^ Not the best picture, but Alice and I explored the final Thanksgiving Point attraction we hadn't visited yet this week: Curiosity Farms. The first time we went, Alice was NOT a fan of the animals, the smells, the temperature. She kept shouting, "Icky! Poopy!" whenever she'd catch a whiff of an animal. We only needed to kill half an hour, so we went home shortly after. But over the next few days she kept making animal sounds and saying, "Alice. Daddy. Kaka (Jack-Jack). [insert horse sound here] Bye mama!" In Alice language this means, "I want to show Dad and Jack the farm, and mom, you'll stay at home." Saturday mornings, Jared usually takes the kids to a Thanksgiving Point museum while I stay home and clean or get other work done. So that's what they did on Saturday morning. Alice loved it this time. She loves the train, playground, and indoor exhibits. She goes back and forth about the animals.

^^ The kids went inside at Curiosity Farms and there was this enormous climbing structure. I think it was supposed to imitate a plant growing up to the sky. Jack climbed all the way to the top.

Enrollment

We are here and we are 'appy (happy). Alice has started telling us when she feels 'appy and it is so fun. The two times she usually does this are (1) if she's frustrated about something, she'll go find a quiet corner to sit down and pout in for a minute or two, and then when I go sit by her she'll inevitably take another 30 seconds and then smile and say "'appy!" and (2) When we tell her it's time to take a nap, she'll often try to get out of it by saying, "'Appy! Me 'appy! Me no sad. Me 'appy!" We think she came up with this by noticing that when Jack gets EXTRA mean and grumpy we tell him he should consider a nap or an early bedtime. She's very observant and socially aware so I think that's where this strategy came from. It's so cute that it's actually kind of effective. We'll usually give her an extra 5-10 minutes and then mention the nap again. Eventually her insistance that she's still 'appy starts to get frantic, and that's when we know the 'appy is wearing off and the tired is taking over. She is just so fun. 

Jared and I are having lots of fun finding moments to sneak over to the new-build neighborhood and walk through the houses under construction. We've had a few meetings with the sales office and we are 80% sure we've picked out the floorplan we'll be going with, and that we'll be in our (likely) forever home by the end of the year. I give a 20% chance that we'll wait an extra year for the next phase to start being built, which would allow us to live even closer to the mountain than the current phase going up. We're a little nervous about being priced out of the market though, so it's definitely more likely we'll pick a lot in the current phase that will be built later this year and go with that. 

Let's get to our pictures from the week:

^^Our Thanksgiving Points passes are getting their mileage. Me and Alice snuck off to the dinosaur museum last week and then stopped by their creamery for an ice cream date--something I wouldn't normally do, but am really glad we did. I know these years of just me and Alice home together during the days will go by quick, and also the ice cream was really good. 

^^New clothes and a trip to the dmv. Jared dressed her in this outfit, including the socks and jelly shoes. I give it a 10 out of 10. 
^^She randomly looks like my brother Tim here and it makes me 'appy.
^^Ragamuffin. I know this is an Alice-heavy post. And I won't apologize!!
^^Jack and Alice snacking and coloring and giggling. But not getting too close to each other because that would surely end poorly. Sibling dynamics are *fUn*
^^We got our new library cards this week. Jack is starting to get more into reading! He's an advanced reader but hasn't been all that into books in the past. I am really hoping to change that by the time summer break comes around.
^^Alice's cooking phase is still going extra strong. She might even turn ME into a baker. I figured that if she is asking to cook 5 times a day, we might as well cook constructive things together instead of random terrible concoctions she invents. So now she's helping me cook dinners, breakfast smoothies, muffins, ninja Creami mixtures, pesto bread . . . really anything. I love cooking but have been out of the swing of it since Alice was born. Fun to get back into it together.
^^Sledding with cousins! Jack kept sliding on his belly and it was pretty impressive.
^^Alice bouncing down the street as we walked Jack to school. This was an awful idea. What would otherwise take 5 minutes took half an hour. Next time I'm insisting she sits in her own big stroller and I push her. She ain't gonna like it.
















'Appy

Ladies and gentlemen, I am tired. So tired. My brain feels foggy, so I'm going to need to get right to the pictures from our week to jog my memory of what we've been up to:

^^We spent Friday afternoon at the Dinosaur Museum. The kids had so much fun--Alice loved dressing up as a dinosaur and running up and down the ramps. Jack loved the computer games. I do think it's a little annoying when a kid's museum that has so many other fun things for kids to do plops video games into the mix. It's like, ok my kid could've done that at home. If the video games weren't there, Jack would've been having a blast playing with Alice and digging in the sand zones, but instead he mostly pined after this random game. Oh well, still had a great time. 
^^We went to my parents' one afternoon and the kids had the coziest quintessential grandparent afternoon making cookies,  playing games, reading books. 
^^Alice in her happy place. I need to buy more box mixes. Alice wants to mix something up at least once a day, and if it's not a legit cornbread mix or something like that, then she wants to invent a recipe herself and that rarely ends well. I could start making daily breads from scratch, but neither of us has the attention span for that at this time.
^^Spending the morning at Aunt Babby's house playing with Aspen and bb Ellie. Looking back, we were out of the house "surviving" a lot this week. And we really needed that. Everyday life feels intense right now. It feels like life keeps going faster and I can't keep up, and again, it just leaves me feeling tired. I feel like I'm going to go shooting off the edge of the treadmill of life if I can't find the "slow down" button very soon. And we don't even have a ton going on. Just playing catch up after our move and dealing with lots of chronically grumpy attitudes. Is there a planet in retrograde or something?
^^Alice waking up in a rare happy mood after an afternoon nap--surely she sensed that Grandma and Grandpa were in the house.
^^My parents came for dinner on Saturday, and as the evening wound down Alice became increasingly grumpy. When Grandma and Grandpa were getting ready to leave, Alice insisted that she wanted to go home with them. Curious how this would play out since she is pretty attached to me, we let her get in the car with them and do a lap around the block before they dropped her back off with us. She was apparently so happy to have that one-on-one time with them in the car and came back home SO happy. It was cute and funny and I think she just needed a break from her family for a second. We've all been there.
^^Sunday dinner buddy.

Tired

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